Becoming parents begins long before the birth of a child. It happens when you discover you are expecting a baby and sometimes even earlier, when the desire or even just the thought of having a child first appears. It is precisely there, in the mind and heart of a mother and a father, that the idea of the baby begins to take shape, through imagination, dreams and plans. Pregnancy is a time of deep reflection, allowing parents to lay the foundations of the attachment bond with their baby.
For some, this is a slow and almost imperceptible process. For others, it is an overwhelming emotion. Fantasies and emotions are an integral part of the journey. Taking time to listen to the baby's movements in the womb, imagining what they are doing, how and if they are moving, and even what their emotions and mood might be, is not just daydreaming. It is already a way of building a relationship, using the waiting period to begin getting to know the baby, so that birth is not a first meeting, but a reunion. This process, made up of listening, imagination and dialogue through touch and body positions, is known as prenatal bonding.